

Let me tell you about some of my favorite students. They are loud, giggly and sometimes don’t listen to anything I say. They often interrupt me when I’m teaching to ask questions like, “Can we do mermaid today, can I pick what we are pretending to sit against during Spine Stretch, or Mom did you check on the dog today (from my son of course!)” When I first started teaching them movement this really drove me a little (ok a LOT) crazy as a teacher. I often felt like a failure if all of them weren’t breathing properly, paying attention perfectly and doing exactly what I wanted them to do.
My favorite students also love to make up their own exercises, show me what new thing they did in dance or karate practice, and I often get hugs from them when they thank me for class afterwards. When they want to, these students can lay on a mat and practically perfectly execute the Pilates exercises that Joe created with amazing coordinating breath! During the school year I have been teaching the students of Hillside Christian School a Pilates class once a week for 6 years now. It’s always a highlight of my week. Every week I learn things that make me a better teacher and make be a better practitioner of the Pilates work.
When I started teaching at Hillside I learned pretty quickly that teaching Pilates and movement to kids is completely different from teaching adults. I am constantly bringing the lessons I learn from them into my own practice and into my teaching. After my weekly session with the kids this week I was reflecting on the many, many things that the kids have taught me and made a quick list:
Hope you enjoy this little clip from 2015 when some of the kids came to the studio for our annual Pilates Day celebration!!
This week I got a call from one of my instructors that something came up and she needed someone to sub her Barre & Pilates class in the evening and couldn’t find anyone else to do it. I said I could cover it for her. Normally subbing a Pilates class is no big deal and I’m pretty comfortable just jumping in and teaching whatever class it is. I have to tell you barre work is a little different though. If you know me at all you know that I am not a dancer, my hips are tight,my turnout is horrible and coordinating movement to music takes me hours of practice! I like the barre work as it’s really good for me but it’s not necessarily my thing when it comes to teaching.
It turn out one of my favorite workouts this week ended up being prepping for Barre & Mat class. I threw some music on and played, and once I got over my “I’m not good at teaching barre attitude” it was pretty fun. I practiced some barre work so I would be familiar enough to teach it and got a great workout in along the way.
My students in class that night were wonderful (they were great sports about trying my barre variations!) and we had fun playing with the barre work and of course doing some of our Pilates Mat work. It was a great reminder to me of how good it can be to get outside of your comfort zone and do something you don’t normally do. I may have to Meet You at the Barre more often!
Like any fitness method or routine Pilates enthusiasts love to tote the “eye appealing” benefits of a Pilates practice such as longer, leaner muscles and abs of steel to try to entice others to try out the practice. Commonly heard are things like,”You’ll change your shape, or your clothes will fit better no matter what the scale says”. But what does a Pilates figure look like in real life?
To me a Pilates figure looks happy, healthy, strong, full of life, full of energy and moves with ease. I can tell you from a Pilates teacher standpoint that a Pilates body has nothing to do with your age, your weight or your God given natural body size or shape.
Pilates figures are good movers. They have figured out how to use the amazing bodies that they have in an efficient, controlled way and it shows in all of their movements. You don’t need to be able to do a crazy split or hang upside down to have a Pilates figure! Someone with a Pilates figure has become proficient at listening to their body, adjusting movements to maintain balance, coordinating their breath with movement, engaging their core and they know how to move through their spine.
Every month at Rivercity Pilates we highlight a client and their Pilates story. Every month I am inspired to hear about how someone has used the Pilates Method to improve their health and their life. If you want to know what a Pilates figure is take some time to read through some of our Inspiration of the Month Blogs. I think you’ll find a whole new appreciation of a Pilates Figure!!
There is a quote that says,” If you listen to your body when it whispers….you won’t have to hear it scream.” As a Pilates teacher this is a lesson that I often find myself trying to teach clients. Often times I think people think I’m a little crazy at first when I suggest that maybe they try the “easier version” of an exercise so that they can do it properly and not injure themselves. For some reason we have this belief that just because we have done something at a harder level we are failing if we don’t do that all the time.
First of all let me say, “There is no failing in Pilates! If you have showed up, are doing the work and are paying attention to your body as you are moving- you are succeeding!”. Second, one of the biggest gifts you can give yourself in your Pilates practice is learning how to pay attention to your body and adjust your movements to what your body needs and can handle on any given day. As a teacher I can tell you it is always one of my goals to teach clients how to listen to their own body as this is such an amazing health tool in your life!
So the next time your Pilates teacher suggests you try a different or maybe easier version of an exercise, don’t let yourself go down that negative road of saying to yourself, “I am not strong enough, I’ve gone backwards, I can’t believe I can’t do that…..
More than likely your instructor (who spends a lot of time helping people find the best movement for each body) is trying to give you a version that is best for your body that day and one that will help you continue to create balanced strength and flexibility in your body. Be nice to yourself, listen to your body (and probably your instructor too!) and see what happens!
This week has been slightly busier than normal for me with my kiddos heading back to school, our new fall class schedule starting, a new class of teacher trainees starting and just general first of the month busyness at the studio. As I reflect back on my Pilates movement time this week I’ve realized that I did lots of Short Spine on the reformer, and two or three mini reformer workouts in between clients throughout my days. If you were wondering why Short Spine, why reformer…I was thinking the same thing. Here’s what I came up with!
Generally on busy weeks I don’t think much about my workouts and tend to just do what fits in my schedule and what my body feels like it needs. This theory easily explains me doing lots of Short Spine on the reformer. Short Spine on the reformer is one of my “happy Pilates exercises”. I love how Short Spine makes my body feel long and stretched out but also makes me work and concentrate on what I’m doing. If I’m feeling tired or tight throughout my day I can jump on a reformer and do 5 or 6 Short Spine repetitions and I feel happy and energized. So I’ve decided clearly I used Short Spine this week as my happy pill as I was navigating a busy, chaotic week!
As for my mini reformer workouts, I’ve decided that my decision to do these workouts was subconsciously from my need to use my movement time to de-stress and reconnect to myself. There is something absolutely genius about the design of the reformer and the sequence of exercises that helps me not only get a work out in but also refocus my brain! Even when I have 50 other things on my mind, I can lay on the reformer, start doing my footwork, and before long I am focused, concentrating on my movement and working my way through the sequence of exercises. I almost always end up doing more than I had thought I would when I got on and I always feel better and more focused afterwards! Much more than a workout this week my reformer time definitely was my refocus, reconnect to myself health tool!
Do you have exercises, or movements that you use not only to create strength, flexibility and balance in your body but to help you and your body deal with the stress of daily life? I would love to hear about your “happy Pilates exercises” or favorite workouts when life is busy!!
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